tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17766790.post548142496736393431..comments2015-09-28T20:53:38.374-05:00Comments on Chronicles of Jaysephus: Paying AttentionJayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14036146984865168805noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17766790.post-66627974619357726652008-04-28T12:41:00.000-05:002008-04-28T12:41:00.000-05:00Yep... forgiveness (or reconciliation) is at the h...Yep... forgiveness (or reconciliation) is at the heart of the conversation. So in addition to the question about how to "remember well" I'll add the cousin-question about how to "forgive well." Later.mycotnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12753303121494346489noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17766790.post-12101675207318354212008-04-28T08:22:00.000-05:002008-04-28T08:22:00.000-05:00I think we have to take on the mentality of an ath...I think we have to take on the mentality of an athlete. If you make an error or strike out with the bases loaded you have to leave it behind and move on. Dwelling on the past mistake makes you more vulnerable to messing up again. The analogy is not perfect. There is that little step of asking forgiveness and repentance between past mistake and moving forward. Somehow I don't think baseball players have confessionals in the dugout. Although it might not be a bad idea...Jayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14036146984865168805noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17766790.post-84103813654134445532008-04-28T08:14:00.000-05:002008-04-28T08:14:00.000-05:00Next time we get together, let's talk about the po...Next time we get together, let's talk about the potential narcissism of regret. I've been chewing on that bone recently... how can we remember wisely, and move ahead without obsessing in front of the mirror?mycotnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12753303121494346489noreply@blogger.com